Supporting your child through the separation

Your children's well-being is often a major concern during a separation. Here you can read about how to best support them through it.

Give Your Child Hope!

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Children need to hear that things will get better. Child psychologist Malin Bergström on how to give your child hope while you get through a divorce.

When a Parent Disappears from a Child’s Life

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When a parent disappears from a child's life, the child still needs answers. Child psychologist Malin Bergström on how to talk about an absent parent.

When Your Child Misses the Other Parent

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It's natural for a child with two homes to miss a parent. How to acknowledge the longing, when to allow a call or an extra night, and how to stay calm.

When Divorce Affects Your Child's Schoolwork

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Divorce can make it hard for a child to concentrate at school. Why schoolwork suffers, how to help with homework, and when to ask the school for support.

Children Who Go Quiet or Withdraw

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Quiet children and teenagers who withdraw are often struggling to find the words, not shutting you out. How to build trust without pushing them to talk.

How Children React to Separation and Divorce

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How do children react to divorce? Child psychologist Malin Bergström explains common reactions, why they come in waves, and how you can support your child.

How to Introduce a New Partner to Your Child

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When should a new partner meet your children? Advice on timing, telling your co-parent first, keeping the focus on your child, and how bonus families work.

The Child Comes First

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How do you put your child first when your own life is in crisis? Child psychologist Malin Bergström on acknowledgment, hope, and staying a parenting team.

How to Support Your Child Through a Separation

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Child psychologist Malin Bergström shares simple ways to support your child through a separation: closeness, cozy moments, laughter and steady routines.

How to Build Trust With Your Child

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Your child needs to know they can come to you with anything. How to build trust, listen without defending yourself, and talk about their other parent.