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How to Ease Transitions Between Homes
Practical tips for smoother transitions between two homes: packing together, warm welcome-home routines, and what to do if your child resists the move.
When a child lives in two homes, several services may need updated information. In Canada, school, health coverage and child benefits each have their own process. Here is a checklist to work through.

Canada · Checked 17 September 2026
The Canada Revenue Agency, or CRA, uses actual care and residence. For the Canada child benefit, it generally treats a child living with each parent 40% to 60% of the time as shared custody.
Both eligible parents apply. Each receives half of the amount calculated using their own family income. Parents cannot simply agree that the full payment goes to one of them if the agency’s shared-care rules apply.
No. A school or tax record does not give a parent all the responsibility for important decisions. The agreement, court order and applicable law still matter.
School boards and health plans may need different documents. Their own instructions explain what to send.
Divorce Act cases have notice rules for address changes and additional rules for relocations that significantly affect relationships. Other cases may follow provincial or territorial rules.
Updating school or tax details does not replace any required notice about a move.
This guide explains general rules and services. It does not assess your individual case.
Information checked on 17 September 2026.
Based on the original article by Elisabeth Scholander.

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