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A division of property agreement (bodelningsavtal) formally ends your financial relationship when you divorce or separate, and settles who gets what. Your bank will usually want to see it before either of you can get a new mortgage.

The difference is significant. If you are married, essentially all property must be divided in the agreement. If you are cohabitants (sambor), only your shared home and the things bought for joint use — furniture, electronics, and so on — are divided.
Without a signed agreement, either of you can demand a division of property — and assets from the other — several years after the divorce (for cohabitants, up to one year after separation). Once the agreement is signed, neither of you can claim any property or compensation from the other, and your financial ties are cut for good.
There are practical reasons too:
For a divorce, the division of property must be a formal written agreement between the two of you — that is what makes it valid. Do it soon after the divorce: otherwise the right to demand a division of property lingers for a long time after you have separated.
Think through who gets the car, the boat, the cat — and above all, the home. If one of you is taking over a home with a mortgage, check with the bank first that the person staying actually qualifies to take over the loans.
A division of property agreement should always be drawn up in connection with a divorce, but no earlier than the day after the divorce application is filed with the district court (tingsrätten). Draw it up in two identical copies, one for each of you. Agreeing quickly on how to split belongings and money also reduces the risk that a money dispute spills over into arguments and conflict about the children.
Once both of you have signed, the agreement is legally binding and practically impossible to revoke or amend. So read it carefully, and make sure you fully understand what it means and what the consequences are before you sign.
For cohabitants, the agreement covers only the home and the household goods (furniture, electronics, kitchenware, and so on) bought for joint use while you lived together. Anything you owned before moving in together is not included. Draft the agreement soon after the separation — the sooner you agree, the smaller the risk that disagreements spill over onto the children. As a cohabitant, you can demand a division of property for up to one year after you and your partner separate.
Here is how the division of property works in practice:
Linda Ljunggren Syding Family law attorney and CEO of Co-parenting
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