Sweden · Checked 17 September 2026
Your views matter
Adults should explain decisions about where you live and give you a chance to say what you think. Your age and maturity matter, but you do not have to wait until 12 to be heard.
You can also choose not to take a side. The adults remain responsible for the decision.
You do not owe a parent a certain number of days
Contact with a parent needs to be safe and suitable for you. If it makes you afraid, adults need to understand why. Contact can be changed, limited or stopped when needed to protect a child.
Things you do not have to solve
- Carrying messages between your parents.
- Deciding who is right in their arguments.
- Keeping the peace by hiding how you feel.
- Comforting an adult about the separation.
How to ask for help
A safe teacher, school counsellor, relative or social-services worker can listen. You can start with “Something at home is worrying me.”
You do not need to know which law applies or investigate what happened. If you are not heard, tell another safe adult.
This guide explains general rules and services. It does not assess your individual case.
Official guidance and sources
Information checked on 17 September 2026.
Based on the original article by Malin Bergström.