If you cannot agree about custody, where your child lives or contact, the district court can decide. Here is how the Swedish process usually works, one stage at a time.
Sweden · Checked 17 September 2026
The parent bringing a disputed claim normally needs to attend a municipal information meeting within the previous year. It explains available help and the court process.
You can attend individually. The other parent’s refusal does not automatically block your application. The court can make an exception for special reasons, including urgent protection needs.
An application to tingsrätten—the district court—explains what you want decided and why. The court guide lists the documents needed, including the meeting certificate where required.
The other parent receives the papers and can respond. A lawyer is not compulsory. Insurance cover for legal costs and public legal aid have separate eligibility rules.
The court works out what is disputed and what information it needs. It may ask social services for information or an investigation.
An interim decision is a temporary decision about arrangements while the case continues. The court may also explore agreement when that is suitable and safe.
If the case is not resolved, a main hearing may be held. Parents explain their positions and the court considers relevant documents, witnesses and information about the child.
The child should be heard in a way suited to their age and maturity, without having to choose a winner. The court decides according to the child’s best interests.
Waiting times vary. There is no general guarantee of a hearing within a fixed number of weeks. The usual rule is that each parent pays their own legal costs, with exceptions.
The judgment explains how and when to appeal. The Court of Appeal normally needs to grant permission before examining the case.
This guide explains general rules and services. It does not assess your individual case.
Information checked on 17 September 2026.
Based on the original article by Elisabeth Scholander.
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