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TalkSafe: The AI Chat Filter That Stops Offensive Messages
Sometimes parents cross the line in what they write to each other. That's why we built TalkSafe — an AI chat filter that softens harsh messages and stops the worst ones from ever being sent.
More Than a Swear-Word Filter
Early chat filters looked for bad words. TalkSafe reads the whole message and understands tone. Alongside open insults and threats, it recognizes the quieter ways a message can wound: sarcasm and irony, belittling remarks, guilt-tripping, gaslighting, veiled threats and hostile use of emojis.
It is also hard to get around. Rewording a jab, wrapping it in politeness or hiding it behind a joke usually just means the new version gets caught too. It does not catch everything – no filter does – but it catches a lot.
How TalkSafe Works
Every chat message passes through TalkSafe before it is sent – in both directions. A milder jab is flagged to the sender with a suggested, calmer rewrite, which they can accept or ignore. Anything worse is blocked outright and never reaches the other parent.
Nothing can be edited or deleted after it has been sent, and both of you can export the chat whenever you like – so there is one shared record of what was said.
A Stricter Mode When You Need It
The standard setting suits most families. If your situation calls for more protection, you can turn on a stricter filter in Settings. It steps in earlier and blocks more, and it applies to everything sent both to and from you.
Why It Matters
Harsh messages drain energy that should go to the children, and they make cooperation harder for both of you. A filter cannot fix a relationship, but it can take the sting out of the words – and give the sender a moment to choose better ones.
"We must be humble and acknowledge that an AI filter cannot stop every form of offensive language. But thanks to TalkSafe's quick reactions, we believe more parents will become aware of their own behavior. If you are constantly flagged for what you write, that can be an eye-opener."
- Erik Scholander, CTO
TalkSafe is part of the chat feature and costs nothing extra. It's included in the single subscription that covers the child's whole family.
Elisabeth Scholander Family law attorney and mediator, specialized in conflict resolution for families
28 August 2026
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