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Moving with Your Child as a Sole Custodian
With sole custody you decide where your child lives and can move without the other parent's consent. Steps to ease the move and keep contact going.
What does "the best interest of the child" actually mean, and how does a court decide? Here are the factors that carry the most weight when a Swedish court rules on custody, residence, and visitation.

The district court's (tingsrätten) task is to determine which outcome is most compatible with the best interest of the child. What the court rules on depends on the claims the parents make. A case can involve "everything" — custody, residence, and visitation — or only a single question, such as where the child should live or whether the child should have visitation with a parent at all.
Based on the Swedish Parental Code (föräldrabalken) and legal precedent, there are usually several circumstances for the court to weigh.
One of the most important questions is whether there are concerns about either parent's ability to parent. This matters especially in custody and residence cases, where one parent carries significant day-to-day responsibility for the child. A parent may be considered less suitable if they:
Another important factor is the parents' ability to cooperate on matters concerning the child. It is considered so important that it is specifically mentioned in the Parental Code, Chapter 6, Section 5.
In practice, this means cooperation under joint custody should work relatively smoothly. The parents don't have to agree on everything — but they must be able to handle their differences in a way that does not harm the child.
If there is information suggesting the child is at risk of harm in contact with one of the parents, the court must pay particular attention to that risk. The same applies if someone else in the child's family is at risk. The district court then makes a risk assessment based on the circumstances of the individual case.
Another key circumstance is the child's need for close, good contact with both parents. In practice, the court considers which parent is more likely to promote the child's contact with the other parent. A parent can therefore "disqualify themselves" in a future case by sabotaging the child's relationship with the other parent today.
Children have a fundamental right to express their opinions and wishes about their own lives — stated in both the UN Convention on the Rights of the Child and the Parental Code. The court must take the child's wishes into account, weighed against the child's age and maturity.
The law sets no particular age at which a child's wishes start to count. Even younger children have the right to be informed about what is happening in their lives and to say what they think; from around age twelve, the child's own opinion carries more weight. The right to an opinion also includes the right not to have one — which matters, because no child should feel pressured to choose between their parents.
The continuity principle exists to give the child stability by letting them stay in a familiar environment, protecting them from an unnecessary move to new surroundings and new routines. In practice, it can sometimes collide with the child's right to a close, good relationship with both parents — and then it becomes a case-by-case assessment. The principle should not be overstated: the adjustment a move demands can, in some cases, be outweighed by the better contact with both parents the move would bring.
The court's assessment of the best interest of the child is made by weighing the circumstances of the individual case. The court particularly looks at:
Depending on the circumstances, one or more of these points may tip the court's assessment. And built into "the best interest of the child" is one more principle: nothing else is allowed to outweigh what is best for the child.
Elisabeth Scholander Family law attorney and mediator, specialized in conflict resolution for families
27 August 2026

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